One of the most common concerns that I see when answering questions for clients is the issue of cheating. Cheating is something that can destroy not only your relationship, but also your ability to trust again. Let's take a look at a letter and talk about what you can do if the person that you love cheats on you.
Dear Tucumcari Tarot,
Dear Cheated on in California,
First, let me extend my condolences to you for having to go through this situation, I know how devastating it can be to find out that the person that you love and married isn't who you thought they were. While a relationship takes two people to work, it can take just one to blow it all apart.
The sad truth about infidelity is that almost 60% of married couples will cheat at least once in a marriage. People assume that cheating happens because of unhappiness or being unsatisfied. The actual reasons are often much more varied, especially by gender.
Men are prone to more casual and opportunistic affairs, often being reckless in their behavior which is what gets them caught. Often they are visually driven ("but she was hot!) Women are much more methodical in regards to an affair, because they consider the stakes to be much higher - making an affair a last resort. Their affairs are much more often driven by emotions ("he made me feel sexy and special")
More interesting to me is the fact that when asked about cheating if they were guaranteed they wouldn't get caught:
74% of men would cheat
24 years of tarot experience, 20 years experience as a mom, and a lifetime of knowledge is just rattling around in here!